I have written something to the church, but Diotrephes, who likes to put himself first, does not acknowledge our authority.
--3 John 1:9
As faith increases, so should humility. Arrogance is never the offspring of an authentic relationship with God. Pride, instead, is often the product of religious systems. And ultimately arrogance is a result of comparison.
But when they measure themselves by one another and compare themselves with one another, they are without understanding.
--Corinthians 10:12
Humility is not found in thinking less of ourselves, true humility results from thinking of ourselves less. Jesus' great commandment that we love God and others requires a healthy self perception - a love of self.
And love your neighbor as you love yourself.
--Mark 12:31
False humility is unbecoming. In reality, it is born from the same womb as arrogance - a blinding focus on self. When we are secure in the love God has for us, we are free to focus on others. (I am as much a work in process as anyone reading this post.)
Pride, whether it is overt or the religious falsely humble sort, stands in the way of what God desires to do in us, and through us. It stifles our growth. It stagnates our joy. Actually Jesus addressed this:
The thief comes to kill, steal and destroy.
I came that you might have real and abundant life.
--John 10:10
God, forgive my arrogance, especially the pride that hides as religious self-deprecation. I am humbled in the face of your presence and grace.
For now...
D
